Anyway, there was heavy fighting and they came with a map, telling us “we want to set up here.” One of our neighbors had such quick thinking, and told them “come on, look at this building: it’s made from brick and covered with siding. If someone shoots back at you, the whole thing will collapse like a house of cards.” They poked around for a while and left.
Nobody in our building died. My colleague (we worked in the same department) lived in Irpin, just 1.5 km away. Their apartment was on the 7th floor. She evacuated with their child, and her husband joined the territorial defense forces, so their 72-year old grandpa was left alone. And one of the rooms suffered a direct hit. A fire started, and he tried to save himself by starting to tie some sheets together, but got confused and fell out of the window to his death.
We tried to leave through the green corridor on March 9th. We walked to the city council building through the entire town carrying our suitcases, and there were tanks and APCs everywhere. The entire town showed up at 11 am, just as we were told. They said that once everyone is seated, we could take private cars to follow the buses. But this was not an option for us: after our house was hit, the back window of our car fell out. We also did not have any gas. So we stood there for two hours. It was very cold and we thought about going back, but some guys saw us walking back with our suitcases and offered us a place in their car.
We were waiting for the permission to send the buses until 1 pm, but it never came, and we decided to take our chances, so a huge procession of private cars, probably 500+, set off. We left at approximately 4:30 pm and rolled into Kyiv at 2:30 am. Before the war, that trip took less than half an hour.
The company where I worked burned to the ground
There was an Epicenter shopping center across the street, and we saw a lot of shot up cars with dead bodies there. Some were lying next to the cars – entire families. And sometimes the dead were sitting inside. These were the people who tried to leave by themselves; they were just shot.
We came to Bilhorodka, and the Ukrainian police were there along with volunteers. We could stop there to drink some tea and have a snack. In Kyiv we spent the night at a hotel, and in the morning the same guys gave us a ride to Khmelnitsky. It took us two days to get there through multiple checkpoints and with no gas. From Khmelnitsky, we went to Lviv and then to Dublyany, where we stayed till May 5th.